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Mar. 28th, 2026 12:04 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
xindigosaberx My ex husband keeps texting me reporting that 'someone' keeps sending him my medical and financial business as if it's some big mistake and not a direct admission that he's infiltrated my life and privacy in a way that is illegal and worthy of investigation.
And knowing full well I'm in a homeless shelter right now, he is trying to force me to pay hundreds of dollars for my sons laptop he ruined, as well as multiple text books he didn't turn in or he will fully allow his son to not graduate on time. I'm making 16 dollars an hour right now and haven't even gotten my first paycheck yet, my ex husband makes upwards of 6k a month and lives in his dead fathers house and drives his dead fathers car. But I'm the one who has to pay or get the label of deadbeat who didn't let their kid graduate?
I know it's a ploy to prop himself up as the more capable parent and try to get me to admit to him where I'm at, even though he already knows. I know he's trying very hard to make it look like he deserves what he took. But the fact is, my ex husband hasn't helped me in the entire time we've been separated and divorced(since 2011) with anything except letting me borrow 100 dollars for gas to get my daughter to her IOP in West phoenix a few years ago which I immediately paid back when I got paid. I have paid for EVERYTHING ELSE. I paid all her bills while she was hospitalized, I paid for IOP and PHP, I paid for therapy and psychiatry copays and the specialized trauma therapy afterward that insurance didn't cover that was 600 extra dollars a month in addition to the 400 dollars her meds suddenly cost when he switched insurance AGAIN without warning. I got bled completely dry by everything her care cost and I didn't pester him or withhold her care so he'd pay half like the divorce decree stated.
When the kids were in school and he required me to use the subsidy funds to pay ALL fees, I didn't withhold the children what they needed so he'd pay half like the divorce decree stated either. I paid it because the kids were the focus. Now, after my kid has gone through multiple laptops and textbooks, I'm expected to pay AGAIN even though I'm in a shelter, he's had the kid for years now after the kid let him into MY home while I slept.
This is what financial abuse looks like after divorce.
And knowing full well I'm in a homeless shelter right now, he is trying to force me to pay hundreds of dollars for my sons laptop he ruined, as well as multiple text books he didn't turn in or he will fully allow his son to not graduate on time. I'm making 16 dollars an hour right now and haven't even gotten my first paycheck yet, my ex husband makes upwards of 6k a month and lives in his dead fathers house and drives his dead fathers car. But I'm the one who has to pay or get the label of deadbeat who didn't let their kid graduate?
I know it's a ploy to prop himself up as the more capable parent and try to get me to admit to him where I'm at, even though he already knows. I know he's trying very hard to make it look like he deserves what he took. But the fact is, my ex husband hasn't helped me in the entire time we've been separated and divorced(since 2011) with anything except letting me borrow 100 dollars for gas to get my daughter to her IOP in West phoenix a few years ago which I immediately paid back when I got paid. I have paid for EVERYTHING ELSE. I paid all her bills while she was hospitalized, I paid for IOP and PHP, I paid for therapy and psychiatry copays and the specialized trauma therapy afterward that insurance didn't cover that was 600 extra dollars a month in addition to the 400 dollars her meds suddenly cost when he switched insurance AGAIN without warning. I got bled completely dry by everything her care cost and I didn't pester him or withhold her care so he'd pay half like the divorce decree stated.
When the kids were in school and he required me to use the subsidy funds to pay ALL fees, I didn't withhold the children what they needed so he'd pay half like the divorce decree stated either. I paid it because the kids were the focus. Now, after my kid has gone through multiple laptops and textbooks, I'm expected to pay AGAIN even though I'm in a shelter, he's had the kid for years now after the kid let him into MY home while I slept.
This is what financial abuse looks like after divorce.
